Take Your Time

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Such a wise and thought provoking quote.  But it’s easier said than done to let go, however, lately I have been doing exactly that.

Three awful things have happened to me in the last four years.  I lost my beautiful, kind Mum to Cancer, immediately after her death my father moved in with another woman I had never even heard of and around all this I discovered my Sister was exactly the monster I suspected she may be.

I went through so many emotions, all at the same time, anger, bitterness, disgust, sadness and a feeling that my world was crumbling around me.  My Husband was amazing, but this led my thoughts to fear, If anything happened to him, I would truly have no one, I would be alone in the world.  It’s not true of course, I have a small circle of life long friends that are as good as family, but when you are in crisis, you spiral.

I did dig my way out, over time, with support, I also remembered I had a spine, so being spineless was a waste of time.  Now I am content, I feel safe and happy and loved, for which I am eternally grateful.  To all you dear people out there, please remember you are not alone, if no one else, you have me.

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17 thoughts on “Take Your Time

  1. Reblogged this on Notes and commented:
    She says; “To all you dear people out there, please remember you are not alone, if no one else, you have me.” Some words, they are more than just words and sometimes they feel like your own, except coming out of another being.

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  2. Those are all wonderful quotes. It’s sad, when people you thought you knew, disappoint you. You thought they were better people than they turned out to be. You then wonder if you really knew them, or if you missed the tell tale signs that were there all along. I like a quote by Dr. Phil – when people show you who they are, believe them.

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  3. Thank you for sharing Lilly. Your words as well as the quotes help me to know that we all have much to be thankful for. With faith and perseverance, we can and will move forward. Let’s make this day precious!

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